How to Control Anxiety and Calm Your Anxious Thoughts

How to Control Anxiety and Calm Your Anxious Thoughts

Faced with depression that’s hard to overcome?

Anxiety is a condition with which we can all deal. It’s weakening, and downplaying is easy for others or even ourselves. It can crawl on you slowly or pounce on all of you at once. There is not only one cause for anxiety; a number of reasons that exist. But when it happens, it’s not impossible.

You must take control when anxiety occurs.

How can anxiety be controlled? Listen to your emotions. They’re trying to say something to you. You are a megaphone for what matters to you, a frustration that calls out to be addressed, an issue that needs to be solved, a condition that needs to be improved or a bad perception about yourself and the consequence that needs to be challenged.

Anxiety is not the fault of you. It’s not your concern. It may be an internal dialog that has gone awry, but you don’t have to beat yourself over it. It’s a loop that feeds on itself, though.

Look at the Therapeutic Support Depression Cycle:

According to the cycle, The anxious person will resist something whenever an opportunity arises, according to the pattern, and then anxiety will beget anxiety. This is an unhealthy pattern that makes being in control of one’s emotions difficult.

How can such emotions be overcome? The fact is, we may be driven and pulled by fear, but in the end we have the say. There are forms of naturally and easily relaxing fear, as well as coping with anxiety and worry to gain greater control of our emotions.

How to Calm Anxiety Naturally

“No defined amount of anxiety makes any difference to anything that is going to happen.” — Alan Watts

Instead of trying to solve some problem, get rid of the need to be in constant control.

There is a metaphor that can be used for depression. You sink faster when you’re in a current by battling it. You will rise to the top of the water as you learn to float and let go and allow yourself to be carried.

Here’s an example of anxiety begetting anxiety:

You’re sitting in your car and all of a sudden you’re beginning to think about presenting for that morning meeting. Why couldn’t there have been more time to prepare after lunch? You feel stuck, unsure of yourself, and you’re afraid to start driving to work. The closer you get to turning your engine, the more you feel anxious. It’s an endless cycle as you sit outside this morning’s home. Your heart will pound, your breathing will be strained, you will feel light headed or dizzy. Yet… it’s not possible to call off jobs. You decide to start the ignition and take a detour to get some coffee, which this morning should help you wake up more.So after you do that to delay getting to work, you remembered that if you waste another minute trying to figure out what to do, you’re going to be late for work. AND now you are even more nervous! What are you going to do?

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In this case, there are a few things to define that are being done wrongly, so we’ll continue with that. Further depression may be caused by caffeine. A detour just delays the inevitable and aggravates the panic.

But what we don’t have is how we feel anxious to identify:

  1. Figure out your anxiety and anxious habits. Track your anxiety and record the thoughts you are having before, during and after (when it passes), that may help find triggers.
  2. Keep a tablet that you can continually update.
  3. Note the triggers. Ask yourself, “What are the self defeating thoughts I am having today that enables anxiety to have its way?”

For example, the scenario just mentioned, along with public speaking, is most likely a fear of failure. It’s part of solving it to define it. It diminishes its control over you. You can trap it once you figure out the pattern of anxiety. Surprise with your ideas of your own. And that’s easy.

How to Calm Anxiety Fast

Let’s go right back to the situation before we start driving around. You sit in the car and think about your next step once the fear has struck. It’s a fear of failure and other such causes you’ve found. Is your anxiety shifting towards panic as well?

1. Focus on Breathing Only, Not the Problem

Reflect only on repairing the inner self and fixing it.

Consider abdominal breathing for a breathing technique. “The stomach should stretch” if you inhale through the nose and you should “exhale through the mouth.” Aim for a couple of minutes.

Instead, focus on the pressure of the body. Where in the body is pressure stored?

Release the body’s pressure. This is a meditation that is common. Your eyes are closed. Begin by releasing your face’s pressure, then your chest, shoulders, back, buttocks, thighs, arms, ankles, and feet. Do this until you are completely relaxed in your skin.

Your mind is still racing with negative thoughts.

2. Give Time for Positive Self-Talk

Speak to yourself when you’re sitting in the car, “I can do that. I needn’t be fine. This way I’m going to do a great job. I’ve got what it takes. I’m set. If anything goes wrong, I’m adaptable. SHOW UP is all I need to do. See what you can do.

In this moment of anxiety, you may not be ready to give the presentation (or perhaps ever ready). But what do you know? Show up. Show up.

When you show up, you’ll get back to everything you’ve rehearsed. So, you’ve got notes. This is why it’s a meeting of the squad. That’s why you’re getting ready. And you know what to do when the panic takes over: SHOW UP.

Show up to find out what happens. That is the minimum you need to do.

3. Combine Positive Self Talk and Deep Breathing

Breathe in what you want to say to yourself while doing this, and breathe out the anxiety.

Breathe in, “I’m going to show up.” Breathe out any negative thoughts or feelings.

Find out what’s going to happen to the end.

Put the answer up.

Breathe through the Breakthrough.

Respire the Breakdown.

Using mantra or supportive meditations. “To begin with, I don’t have to be great.”

Come up with a plan for a game. The idea here is to be constructive. You’re stuck in defense mode if anxiety hits and you’re unprepared for it. Try proactively to come up with phrases that will help you feel better, relax strategies, mantras and meditations so that you don’t seek out in your mind for it in the moment.

See how far you’ve come. Recount all your life’s wins and major blessings each day before you start, before the anxiety can hit so you can remember you’ve had the tools and what it takes all along.

How to Deal with Anxiety and Worry

In most cases, depression and anxiety are negative stressors; positive stress is when you feel the pressure and remain calm. How do I deal with it?

Paranoia and paranoia can be interchanged. We can feel anxiety when we’re worried. We may be more worried when we feel anxiety.

Try to set aside a stated’ worry time. Give yourself permission for a while to be a mess. It’s a therapeutic release.

Become Mentally Stronger!

You find ways to stop you from having negative feelings before and after those 30 minutes if you cap it with 30 minutes. You’re not staying in the style. If something happens, you can always reschedule it.

If you want to make the most of this moment, though? Research suggests approaches to be found. Try to be successful. List as many options as possible before the timer runs out.

Take a vacation from your negative thoughts until you’re worried. Please enjoy it.

How to Be in Control of Emotions

Your mind is a garden. YOU plant the seeds.

Almost all motions need to be released rather than bottled up or what happens? You will explode.

None of this is easy. another fact is, it’s counter-intuitive to calm down when anxiety or worry hit. But if you really can master any emotion, let it be this one:


The feeling of gratitude will help us resolve any emotion that is difficult.

Did you feel overwhelmed? “I’m glad that so far at least I’ve had myself.” Feeling lost? “I’m grateful for what I’ve learned along the way, like the lessons.” “I’m happy that there’s a chance to meet new people; I’ve just got to show up.” “I’m thankful that I’m alive at least,” he said. “I’m grateful that I have what I have, so I can do the best with it instead of focusing on what I can’t control.” Focusing on what we do allows us to put things in a better perspective. This is also part of a positive self-talk.

When you really have the right perspective, you can release a negative emotion.

Practice Mindfulness

Find a specific way round yourself immediately by breathing in and out and focusing only on the moment.

Methods of mindfulness include grounding.

For example, small children may play I-Spy and while the game goes “I Spy with my little eye…” and then they describe an object in the room. Other children have to guess the object. The one who guesses correctly gets to go next. And so on…

Sometimes, grounding yourself is a little like playing the I-Spy game with yourself. You look at objects around you and focus only on their description. You may even say them out loud.

“Black pen.”

“Brown table.”

“Blue tablecloth.”

And so on. Focus on the senses.

The argument is that to stabilize yourself, you have to put yourself completely into the moment. It takes you out of depression and makes you honest and be mindful of it. Once you can pull yourself into the moment, start or restart a positive self-talk and continue to breathe deeply.

It’s important to start securing yourself while feeling emotions. There may be the feelings, but they don’t own you. Don’t over-identify with your thoughts. Feelings are not evidence, and they rarely drive our destiny.

You also need to focus on self-care. That’s all about this!

Self-care or care of your emotions is meant to be a healing journey. There are coping methods to be used for self-care:

  • Writing in a journal
  • Venting to someone you trust
  • Playing a game
  • Listening to music

Every single thing that is a hobby can also be a coping method. Coz today, there are millions to try, and here’re 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

Final Thoughts

Sure, your emotions will help guide you to what you want, but why are they there? They were planted and provoked by some thinking of yours.

There’s no sudden panic. It shows up trying to dictate what we are, what we can think and how we can live our lives. It would be better for us to hide in the dark than to reach the sunlight.

You have all that you can do for that light inside you. You’re just a star. Let that be the last mantra you think of as you work through your depression… “I’m a light… and I’m worth it to be here.” What you’re trying to do is become that light in the moments you feel at least, and because of that you’re going to rise.

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